so you basically judged the shit out of her and just rolled your eyes when she said “i dont wanna hurt people” and continue manipulating the fuckout of her by making pressure all the freaking time.
and then you made her question herself,everything she respected before.
you told her countless times that she is a vampire now and she is different than before.
AND YOU MADE ALL OF THIS DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE TRIED TO RESIST SO HARD TO NOT TO CHANGE! she cried for days to not to be like you but you told her “its ok to be like you its the normal one”
her friends despised her because she became this obnoxious person because of you.
but somehow, you think ” I REFUSE TO CHANGE YOU? ” will redeem you?
Congrats Damon Salvatore, now you are bigger asshole than you have ever been by letting this girl go, ABANDONING her, after you fucked her life up and changed the shit out of her and now you left her to face with all things by herself.
You are just coward to face with someday she will blame you for everything you have done to her to change.